I would love to start this “buzz” with the one liner…
“Friends are the siblings god forgot to give us.”
The line inspired me a lot that I decided to devote this long piece of article to one ma close friend some where out there in this world...!!
We all remember our friends at every stage, no matter whether they have left us because of destiny, their ego, some misunderstanding, loss of contact, or no matter what the reason is,we still remember, care, and miss them in our lives… Don’t we?
So tell me? Why do friends become so important in our life that sometimes we just can’t stop thinking about them, no matter how deeply we try to avoid them?
And the fact is that the avoidance is just TEMPORARY, but our ego stretches it like those two corners of a lake that are never destined to meet!
Okay, I accept it was my mistake to lose that particular special friend in my life
and Yes! I regret showing too much ego towards that friend,
but does this not become his responsibility to come back to me, hug me and say “Its okay, forget everything, LETS BE FRIENDS AGAIN!
I am dying to hear these words and I know I would never hear them in my life now, because this modern society has advanced in such a way that people have started giving importance to personal egos more than friendship.
Why should I message him first, why should I call him, why it’s me who always initiates the conversation? Come on guys, why can’t we just forget these stupid talks and keep the meaning of ‘friendship’ as simple as its existence?
When i just think for a second, those wonderful moments spent with him...
the moments when we spent chatting at my favorite five gardens...
those haunting roaming at night,
Police ka Danda at Girgaon Chaupaty @ 3am
"ABBEY BUS STOP....!!! @ 2am, nariman point....
N few very interesting secretes of each others life....
Full nite phone calls
talking abt r gals...
teasing that nerd in the class who always used to raise his arm at the mention of any question, bunking lectures,
challenges abt who will make out fast in class tests
then calls b4 exam nite asking KITNA hua??? Mer toh Lag Padi hai yar...kuch imp questions bata de plz...nahi toh fail ho jaunga (tho he has already done with studies)...
going for an out-of-the-town trip specially the days spent in GOA....DCH moments..!!
lying to parents just for my dear friend,
disturbing the friends during their private dates,
waiting for the clock to buzz 12am…
just to wish him Happy Birthday, trust me, the moments are endless…
And I know that these moments won’t come back.
But was it really a mistake that we are no longer friends?
Trust me, at some point or the other,
we need a friend who could tell what’s going in our mind, just by looking at our very face..
A friend who could understand that when I say SORRY, I mean that it’s not my sin idiot, it’s yours! Just accept it, I would feel better…
A friend who could understand me that when I say Goodnight, I intend to mean that don’t switch your mobile silly, I want to talk more, all night…
These are exceptions… and the one who understand these little things in life is called FRIEND!
I hope every one of you is blessed with a minimum of one such friend in your life. And if you have already found one, make sure that you don’t let the demons of ego and misunderstanding come into sweet relationship! Yes, You Are My Friend!
